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Visiting a Loved One with Alzheimer’s During the Holidays, in the Lake Mary, Florida Area and Orlando, Florida Area

According to Alzheimer’s Disease Research, Alzheimer’s commonly includes problems with communication—finding words, expressing thoughts, or following conversations; memory—repeating the same question, not recognizing a friend or family right away, struggling to do familiar tasks; and behavior—agitation, irritability, and verbal or physical outbursts. 

Alzheimer’s Disease Research offers tips to help communicate with a loved one with Alzheimer’s:  always approach your loved one calmly from the front to avoid startling them; reintroduce yourself and help them make the connection; avoid arguing, criticizing, or correcting them; remain calm and encourage them to express themselves as best they can, even if they struggle to articulate their thoughts or sound offensive; speak slowly and keep your words and sentences short and simple; remove distractions-visit them in a quiet living room, for instance instead of a busy cafe. 

Alzheimer’s Disease Research also recommends tips to help your loved one with memory: reminisce about a favorite time together; ask about immediate family members; bring an old photo album or news clipping that may trigger their memories; engage—talk about events in your life, local community, and the world; remember who they were before Alzheimer’s. Were they an artist, choir member, or frequent traveler? Help them rediscover those passions. 

Further, Alzheimer’s Disease Research gave tips to help with the behavior of your loved one. Let your loved one repeat questions. When possible, gently redirect their attention to something else. Minimize stress. If they seem agitated or uncomfortable, find a way to make it easier. If possible, suggest physical activity like walking or dancing. Exercise is good for the body and brain. Play their favorite music. Music stays in the memory and may provide emotional and behavioral benefits. 

Lastly, and most importantly, accept how your loved one is, and enjoy visiting with them. And take pictures to send them after your visit.   

Have a Happy Thanksgiving! 

If you have more questions regarding a Marital and Family Law matter, you may call Ann Marie Giordano Gilden at Ann Marie Giordano Gilden, P.A. at 407-732-7620 and set an initial consultation. You may also visit my website at: https://www.annmariegildenlaw.com 

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